3 Simple Rules For Making Your Own Sex Tape – Advice For Making a Homemade Erotic Movie

For a lot of guys the moment when they finally get their girlfriend to make a sex tape can be one of disappointment. While the sex is great, the resulting tape can be a little disappointing. Far from the erotic, well lit world of erotic movies, homemade sex movies often are more weird than sexually exciting. For that reason, I decided to enjoy a month of experimenting and give you a guide to making your own homemade erotic video.

Rule 1: Get Those Angles Right

Angles are actually one of the most important things to consider in making these kinds of erotic films. The camera needs to be somewhere with a good view of the action and out of the way enough that it doesn’t accidentally get smashed. Usually it is best to then have sex with your body angled so that it can record both of your bodies. Usually this angle is sideways on and further back if you plan on moving around a lot.

If she has long hair, it becomes vital that she watches her angles and makes sure that her hair doesn’t obscure what she is doing. This is especially important during oral sex as many of my tapes had to be edited thanks to her luscious locks blocking the camera’s view.

Rule 2: Always Try and Look Good on The Camera

A lot of couples have one big worry about being on camera: they won’t look sexy enough. Some people can find that their confidence really suffers if they don’t like the way that they look while having sex.

The first thing to understand is that the camera actually distorts your body, so you can use this is your advantage. Lean back and both your bodies will look great (This move is very common to professional shots). Let her go on top and arch your body up while she arches back and you will both look awesome.

Rule 3: Leave Your Inhibitions at Home

Small movements and gentle touches are great for couples, but will be barely noticeable on tape. Therefore now is the time to go a little crazy, make lots of big motions and just have a great time. Not only will it feel better, but it will look better too.

Your Own Sex Tape

Making and viewing the pornography should be great fun for the two of you. The key thing to remember is that the camera adds a third ‘voyeur’ to the room, making the fantasy about voyeurism (Enjoying being watched having sex). Therefore don’t be ashamed about playing up to the camera, it is part of the thrill. Just let yourselves go and enjoy having your own secret tape that you can bring out any time you want to add something extra to sex.

What Pornography Can Teach Men About Having Great Sex, Orgasms and Making Her Sexually Satisfied

When you think about it, pornographic movies are a little ridiculous. The men are impossibly proportioned, the sex is entirely for the man’s benefit, and the man shows all the intimacy and emotional range of a sponge. In short, it is sex perfectly tailored to men! No surprises then that when we try it with our partners, the usual responses is negative… really negative.

While that might seem the end of it, most of us know (Either from personal experience or from watching the recent proliferation of sex tapes on the internet) that some people are having sex that would make any adult movie star proud. The question is: what are they doing that most guys aren’t?

Women and Porn-star Sex

Most women are willing to experiment with some elements of porn-star sex, they just don’t like the other elements. Unsurprisingly, women find a total lack of intimacy a huge turn-off: after all it could be anyone underneath your favorite star and he’d have sex exactly the same way! There is a key message for men everywhere: don’t ever think that your hips moving like a jackrabbit can ever replace basic intimacy!

Often in these movies, the guys act in a very dominant way. While this may seem like a bad thing to try in your sex life, in fact this is often something that guys forget: just make sure not to confuse being manly with being mean! It is okay to act dominant and in-control during sex, for many women it is a key part of the sex fantasy.

In porn everything is done for the man’s benefit, which is one of many reasons why women don’t usually like watching it. If you want to try these kind of acts in real life, they need to be about both of your pleasures. The cowgirl, for example, is mostly used to get some ‘good’ shots in movies, whereas in real life it is an excellent way to give her a G-spot orgasm. However not all sex acts that take place in porn are about her pleasure, so the question is how do things that seem entirely about the guy’s pleasure become something that she will want to do.

For Whose Pleasure?

That is where making sure that you have great sex is really important. Sex should always be able getting to the goal where you get pleasure from touching her and she gets pleasure from touching you. A good example of this is anal sex. A lot of guys just ‘stick it in’ hurting her (And possibly themselves!) in the act, however if done correctly so that you make sure that it is pleasurable to her throughout, anal sex should stimulate the erogenous zones in a different way to ‘regular sex’.

While there are better ways to learn than watching these kinds of movies, there are lessons to be learned. You should never consider going out of your way to repeat the sexual acrobatics of your favorite star, but there is nothing wrong with using some techniques in the right way.

Erotica Movie Review of the Trois Triology

This month I am focusing on a triple review of the Trois trilogy. Trois one, two and three are all very provocative stories of sexual escapades and suspense – some more better than the other. Each starring African American actors. And each movie presents highly erotic sex scenes and interesting stories that are engaging and involving throughout; each story has elements of a ménage à trois theme.

Trois 1 – The first installment to the highly erotic trilogy is filled with many twists and surprises. The story centers around an attractive young couple, Jermaine and Jasmine (Gary Dourdan and Kenya Moore), who moved to Atlanta. Jermaine convinced Jasmine to try a ménage à trois with another woman to spice things up; their relationship spirals down hill and he realized that having a ménage à trois was a
mistake. He found himself in a Fatal Attraction type situation except the other woman was more interested in his wife. Both Jermaine and Jasmine unlocked secrets about each others’ sexual past that they had wished were left alone. This movie is very erotic as well as carry a very appealing story line. This independent film has good acting, and good cinematography. It is understandable how this movie sets a standard of excellence and is the first in the Trois trilogy.

Trois 2: Pandora’s Box – Starts off with a highly erotic and very intense shower sex scene which soon came to a holt when there was a murder – hence the handsome Tyson Bedford only had a cameo role in this film. The story centered around Tammy, the wife of the murdered man and also the psychologist (Mia). Both women found themselves connected in a web of deceit when Tammy becomes Mia’s patient. Tammy wanted Mia to help her cope with her left over feelings related to her husband’s murder. Meanwhile, the police suspected Tammy was involved in the murder and asked Mia to discuss any pertinent information from their therapy sessions with them.

Doctor Mia listened to Tammy discuss her sex life and the many sexual escapades that she shared with her late husband. Mia began to realize that her own love life was in trouble. She was convinced by Tammy to experience the swingers’ lifestyle. Tammy invited her to “Pandora’s Box” – A sexually charged swingers club. Mia reluctantly agreed to visit Pandora’s Box, but became overwhelmed by what she saw (orgies, drugs, nudity, BDSM, and gay sex) in a highly sexually charged environment. As she wandered throughout Pandora’s Box she saw a man who was familiar to her. She was intrigued and became seduced by him. She knew that having sex with him was bad but she just could not resist. At that point, the story had many twists that made it more interesting. Mia realized that sometimes, things may not be as they seem. She found herself trapped in emotions and left to make a very serious decision that changed her life as she knew it.

There is a deep flaw in the initial story line when it comes to the love triangle the doctor finds herself in, but it all became clear towards the end of the movie. Hence, this made the movie even more interesting because it did not exactly end the way that I had expected. The acting in this movie was very good – better than the other two in the trilogy. The cinematography was done very well. The male leads (Michael Jai White, Kristoff St. John, and Tyson Beckford) had me wishing I was a character in this movie to experience the sexual pleasures that doctor Mia and Tammy had experienced. This installment was well written, but also very twisted – A thrill of a ride all the way to the end.

Trois 3: The Escort – This final installment was more urban contemporary than the previous installments. Trent, a concert promoter and law school drop out found himself over his head in trouble when his dealings with gangsters resulted in something that had the potential to become deadly. Trent agreed to work as an escort to make extra cash.

Once again in the tradition of Trios – this installment is twisted but more so towards the end. The madam of the escort service was very controlling and left him feeling trapped because she seemed to have special “feelings” for him. He found escorting as an escape from his parents’expectations of him, but soon realized that his choices had serious consequences that he was not ready for.

The beginning of the movie was somewhat slow if you compare it to the first two installments. And the story line and acting was somewhat “weak”. The cinematography was good. I would not have watch it if I had not already watched the first two installments. One of the best aspects of this film were the highly attractive lead characters Brian J. White (from Motives 2 – Retribution) and Patrice Fisher (from Zane’s Sex Chronicles)

Summary: What was an added plus for each of these movies were the attractive actors as I stated previously. I can not deny that all three of these movies were very erotic and very sexy. There was nothing that was subtle about the sex scenes. Especially in the Pandora’s Box installment. Mr. Tyson Bedford made a short but memorable cameo in the beginning during a steamy shower scene that still replays itself in my mind.

These movies can be rented on Netfilx, Blockbuster and purchased on Amazon.

Similar movies that you might want to rent or purchase are Motives and Motives 2 – Retribution