Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie… but that doesn’t guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there’s one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies… what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there’s no emotion it’ll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn’t seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was “forbidden” love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:

  • Having a special romantic evening
  • Teasing your lover
  • Having sex somewhere “naughty”
  • Abstaining… for a while
  • Playing out fantasies
  • Trying something “forbidden”
  • Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex… and who doesn’t want that?

Porn – Here’s How To Get Your Woman To Watch “Naughty Movies” With You (Kinky Sex)

Most men tend to really like PORN MOVIES. Heck, I believe that in some ways “adult movies” are partly responsible for this current generation of men being unable to satisfy their women in the bedroom.

You see, when you have sex with your woman it is a visual and auditory experience – just like porn. However, unlike porn – when you have sex with your woman there are other senses involved, those being FEEL, SMELL and TASTE.

Basically, I think that when men watch too much porn – they become reliant on what they see and hear. Then, when they have “real sex” with their woman, they are not tuned in enough to what they feel, smell and taste.

So BE CAREFUL WITH PORN.

With that said, it can be fun to watch NAUGHTY movies with your woman – but you have to go about it the right way (and most men don’t).

First of all – if you are not giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex – DO NOT watch porn with her. The reason why is because if your woman sees a female porn star getting much more sexual pleasure on screen than you are giving her – your woman is likely to feel confused, annoyed and perhaps even angry with you!

So, get the sex working properly with your woman before you try to watch porn with her.

However, if you are giving your woman mind-blowing sex – feel free to watch porn with her occasionally.

Here Is How To Get Your Woman To Watch “Naughty Movies” With You

There is definitely something kinky and a little naughty about you and your woman “getting it on”; whilst you are watching other people “get it on” in a porn movie.

And women love to GET NAUGHTY – so this can be powerful.

The way to get your woman to watch porn with you is to choose the type of porn you watch with her very carefully.

You see, we guys tend to be happy watching any porn, as long as the woman (or women) is very attractive. We also tend to like to watch Lesbian porn.

However, your woman is a bit more picky when it comes to what porn will turn her on. Here is what most women want to watch:

They want to watch porn with a STORY LINE. And they want that story line to be a little naughty, a little wrong and a little perverse.

We guys don’t mind if the porn actors just start having sex as soon as the scene starts.

BUT – your woman wants to see FOREPLAY in the porn that you watch with her; just like she wants you to give her foreplay before you have sex with her (you do give your woman foreplay, right?).

So, let me really HELP YOU OUT by giving you some ideas of the type of porn and story lines that your woman will probably find a turn on:

– Naughty school girl being called to the headmaster’s office and then getting “punished” for being a bad girl

– Anything very artistic (women like those movies where the guys where masks and the women where leather cat-suits where the crotch unzips and everything else stays on)

– A woman takes her car in for a service, then realises she has no money to pay – so she pays the workers at the garage in “another way”

Do you get this?

Do you see how your woman’s mind works?

Women want the porn with the REALLY NAUGHTY story lines that slowly build up to sex. They do not want to watch the porn that jumps straight into sex because they find it boring.

So, if you want to get your woman to watch porn with you…

– Use it rarely (once every 6 to 8 weeks). Do not start trying to watch porn with your woman every night

– Choose porn that your woman will like (clever, naughty, slightly perverse, “wrong” story lines)

– Make sure you are giving your woman incredible sex BEFORE you start to introduce porn into your bedroom. If you aren’t giving your woman vaginal and multiple orgasms every time you have sex with, get that happening before you think about porn.

More than anything – your woman wants you to give her ORGASMS. Remember that.

Erotica Movie Review of the Trois Triology

This month I am focusing on a triple review of the Trois trilogy. Trois one, two and three are all very provocative stories of sexual escapades and suspense – some more better than the other. Each starring African American actors. And each movie presents highly erotic sex scenes and interesting stories that are engaging and involving throughout; each story has elements of a ménage à trois theme.

Trois 1 – The first installment to the highly erotic trilogy is filled with many twists and surprises. The story centers around an attractive young couple, Jermaine and Jasmine (Gary Dourdan and Kenya Moore), who moved to Atlanta. Jermaine convinced Jasmine to try a ménage à trois with another woman to spice things up; their relationship spirals down hill and he realized that having a ménage à trois was a
mistake. He found himself in a Fatal Attraction type situation except the other woman was more interested in his wife. Both Jermaine and Jasmine unlocked secrets about each others’ sexual past that they had wished were left alone. This movie is very erotic as well as carry a very appealing story line. This independent film has good acting, and good cinematography. It is understandable how this movie sets a standard of excellence and is the first in the Trois trilogy.

Trois 2: Pandora’s Box – Starts off with a highly erotic and very intense shower sex scene which soon came to a holt when there was a murder – hence the handsome Tyson Bedford only had a cameo role in this film. The story centered around Tammy, the wife of the murdered man and also the psychologist (Mia). Both women found themselves connected in a web of deceit when Tammy becomes Mia’s patient. Tammy wanted Mia to help her cope with her left over feelings related to her husband’s murder. Meanwhile, the police suspected Tammy was involved in the murder and asked Mia to discuss any pertinent information from their therapy sessions with them.

Doctor Mia listened to Tammy discuss her sex life and the many sexual escapades that she shared with her late husband. Mia began to realize that her own love life was in trouble. She was convinced by Tammy to experience the swingers’ lifestyle. Tammy invited her to “Pandora’s Box” – A sexually charged swingers club. Mia reluctantly agreed to visit Pandora’s Box, but became overwhelmed by what she saw (orgies, drugs, nudity, BDSM, and gay sex) in a highly sexually charged environment. As she wandered throughout Pandora’s Box she saw a man who was familiar to her. She was intrigued and became seduced by him. She knew that having sex with him was bad but she just could not resist. At that point, the story had many twists that made it more interesting. Mia realized that sometimes, things may not be as they seem. She found herself trapped in emotions and left to make a very serious decision that changed her life as she knew it.

There is a deep flaw in the initial story line when it comes to the love triangle the doctor finds herself in, but it all became clear towards the end of the movie. Hence, this made the movie even more interesting because it did not exactly end the way that I had expected. The acting in this movie was very good – better than the other two in the trilogy. The cinematography was done very well. The male leads (Michael Jai White, Kristoff St. John, and Tyson Beckford) had me wishing I was a character in this movie to experience the sexual pleasures that doctor Mia and Tammy had experienced. This installment was well written, but also very twisted – A thrill of a ride all the way to the end.

Trois 3: The Escort – This final installment was more urban contemporary than the previous installments. Trent, a concert promoter and law school drop out found himself over his head in trouble when his dealings with gangsters resulted in something that had the potential to become deadly. Trent agreed to work as an escort to make extra cash.

Once again in the tradition of Trios – this installment is twisted but more so towards the end. The madam of the escort service was very controlling and left him feeling trapped because she seemed to have special “feelings” for him. He found escorting as an escape from his parents’expectations of him, but soon realized that his choices had serious consequences that he was not ready for.

The beginning of the movie was somewhat slow if you compare it to the first two installments. And the story line and acting was somewhat “weak”. The cinematography was good. I would not have watch it if I had not already watched the first two installments. One of the best aspects of this film were the highly attractive lead characters Brian J. White (from Motives 2 – Retribution) and Patrice Fisher (from Zane’s Sex Chronicles)

Summary: What was an added plus for each of these movies were the attractive actors as I stated previously. I can not deny that all three of these movies were very erotic and very sexy. There was nothing that was subtle about the sex scenes. Especially in the Pandora’s Box installment. Mr. Tyson Bedford made a short but memorable cameo in the beginning during a steamy shower scene that still replays itself in my mind.

These movies can be rented on Netfilx, Blockbuster and purchased on Amazon.

Similar movies that you might want to rent or purchase are Motives and Motives 2 – Retribution