What Pornography Can Teach Men About Having Great Sex, Orgasms and Making Her Sexually Satisfied

When you think about it, pornographic movies are a little ridiculous. The men are impossibly proportioned, the sex is entirely for the man’s benefit, and the man shows all the intimacy and emotional range of a sponge. In short, it is sex perfectly tailored to men! No surprises then that when we try it with our partners, the usual responses is negative… really negative.

While that might seem the end of it, most of us know (Either from personal experience or from watching the recent proliferation of sex tapes on the internet) that some people are having sex that would make any adult movie star proud. The question is: what are they doing that most guys aren’t?

Women and Porn-star Sex

Most women are willing to experiment with some elements of porn-star sex, they just don’t like the other elements. Unsurprisingly, women find a total lack of intimacy a huge turn-off: after all it could be anyone underneath your favorite star and he’d have sex exactly the same way! There is a key message for men everywhere: don’t ever think that your hips moving like a jackrabbit can ever replace basic intimacy!

Often in these movies, the guys act in a very dominant way. While this may seem like a bad thing to try in your sex life, in fact this is often something that guys forget: just make sure not to confuse being manly with being mean! It is okay to act dominant and in-control during sex, for many women it is a key part of the sex fantasy.

In porn everything is done for the man’s benefit, which is one of many reasons why women don’t usually like watching it. If you want to try these kind of acts in real life, they need to be about both of your pleasures. The cowgirl, for example, is mostly used to get some ‘good’ shots in movies, whereas in real life it is an excellent way to give her a G-spot orgasm. However not all sex acts that take place in porn are about her pleasure, so the question is how do things that seem entirely about the guy’s pleasure become something that she will want to do.

For Whose Pleasure?

That is where making sure that you have great sex is really important. Sex should always be able getting to the goal where you get pleasure from touching her and she gets pleasure from touching you. A good example of this is anal sex. A lot of guys just ‘stick it in’ hurting her (And possibly themselves!) in the act, however if done correctly so that you make sure that it is pleasurable to her throughout, anal sex should stimulate the erogenous zones in a different way to ‘regular sex’.

While there are better ways to learn than watching these kinds of movies, there are lessons to be learned. You should never consider going out of your way to repeat the sexual acrobatics of your favorite star, but there is nothing wrong with using some techniques in the right way.

3 Simple Rules For Making Your Own Sex Tape – Advice For Making a Homemade Erotic Movie

For a lot of guys the moment when they finally get their girlfriend to make a sex tape can be one of disappointment. While the sex is great, the resulting tape can be a little disappointing. Far from the erotic, well lit world of erotic movies, homemade sex movies often are more weird than sexually exciting. For that reason, I decided to enjoy a month of experimenting and give you a guide to making your own homemade erotic video.

Rule 1: Get Those Angles Right

Angles are actually one of the most important things to consider in making these kinds of erotic films. The camera needs to be somewhere with a good view of the action and out of the way enough that it doesn’t accidentally get smashed. Usually it is best to then have sex with your body angled so that it can record both of your bodies. Usually this angle is sideways on and further back if you plan on moving around a lot.

If she has long hair, it becomes vital that she watches her angles and makes sure that her hair doesn’t obscure what she is doing. This is especially important during oral sex as many of my tapes had to be edited thanks to her luscious locks blocking the camera’s view.

Rule 2: Always Try and Look Good on The Camera

A lot of couples have one big worry about being on camera: they won’t look sexy enough. Some people can find that their confidence really suffers if they don’t like the way that they look while having sex.

The first thing to understand is that the camera actually distorts your body, so you can use this is your advantage. Lean back and both your bodies will look great (This move is very common to professional shots). Let her go on top and arch your body up while she arches back and you will both look awesome.

Rule 3: Leave Your Inhibitions at Home

Small movements and gentle touches are great for couples, but will be barely noticeable on tape. Therefore now is the time to go a little crazy, make lots of big motions and just have a great time. Not only will it feel better, but it will look better too.

Your Own Sex Tape

Making and viewing the pornography should be great fun for the two of you. The key thing to remember is that the camera adds a third ‘voyeur’ to the room, making the fantasy about voyeurism (Enjoying being watched having sex). Therefore don’t be ashamed about playing up to the camera, it is part of the thrill. Just let yourselves go and enjoy having your own secret tape that you can bring out any time you want to add something extra to sex.

Sex in the City Tips!

Since the movie Sex in the City is now showing and proving to be a huge success at the box office, it seems appropriate to offer some surefire real life sex in the city tips and techniques that work amazingly well.

As the movie points out, sex in the city is drastically different than intimate relations in smaller towns. You must possess specific skills to have successful sex, in the city! Here’s how to catch the current exciting wave of sex in the cities:

1. Variety, Variety, Variety!

It is a must to learn as many sexual techniques and tips as possible! Successful city sex relies heavily on variety. Variety will ensure that no matter who you end up meeting, you will be able to please and pleasure them due to your vast knowledge of sex skills.

2. Confidence!

In the city you are guaranteed of one thing: competition. In order to destroy competition, you need confidence. Attracting others will depend on increasing your confidence level. It’s what will make or break successful sex in the city.

Remember, the big advantage to the city is that you can simply go for it! If you strike out, you can literally turn around and hit a home run with someone else. But you have to have confidence!

3. Learn to be a Good Lover Beforehand!

Things move fast in the city, and you want to be able to have your game down immediately, rather than fumbling around and learning the bedroom ropes as you go. The best way to learn sex skills quickly, is by simply reading through a good manual which will outline hundreds of successful ways to become a good lover quickly.

From positioning, to lasting longer, and to the many different techniques for variety, you can learn a lot of necessary knowledge quickly through a good sex skills manual.