Great Sex is Like a Great Movie

A quick search tells me about 600 movies are released in US theatres each year. Now have a quick think and work out how many of those movies you actually watched. Then have another think and decide what ones you thought were actually great movies.

Now, putting aside personal preferences, there are some movies that capture the imagination of millions of people. Sometimes these are the movies that attract a lot of buzz like the latest Indiana Jones movie… but that doesn’t guarantee people will love it.

If you look at the various lists of top movies, I find there’s one common thread that runs through them. They took the audience on an emotional journey.

Think about your favourite movies… what emotions do you feel? Do you fall in love with the characters? Or do you hate them? Do the movies scare you? Or do they make you laugh? All great movies cause an emotional reaction in the viewer.

And the same is true for great sex. Sure, you can have sex 600 times a year, but if there’s no emotion it’ll never be great sex. If you think back to your most memorable sexual experiences you can see how emotion played a strong role.

Maybe you hadn’t seen your lover for a while or it was someone you had to chase for a long time. It could be that you just felt a lot of passion for that person or perhaps it was “forbidden” love. External events might have played a part and raised the emotion of the situation as well.

Emotion is what makes the difference between good sex and great sex. Sure, you can love someone and have good sex with them on a regular basis, but with a bit of a kick start you can turn this into great sex.

To do this you might try:

  • Having a special romantic evening
  • Teasing your lover
  • Having sex somewhere “naughty”
  • Abstaining… for a while
  • Playing out fantasies
  • Trying something “forbidden”
  • Creating anticipation in advance

There are many ways to heighten emotions during sex and I recommend you try everything you can think of. A little bit of thought is all it takes to take good sex and make it great sex… and who doesn’t want that?

What Pornography Can Teach Men About Having Great Sex, Orgasms and Making Her Sexually Satisfied

When you think about it, pornographic movies are a little ridiculous. The men are impossibly proportioned, the sex is entirely for the man’s benefit, and the man shows all the intimacy and emotional range of a sponge. In short, it is sex perfectly tailored to men! No surprises then that when we try it with our partners, the usual responses is negative… really negative.

While that might seem the end of it, most of us know (Either from personal experience or from watching the recent proliferation of sex tapes on the internet) that some people are having sex that would make any adult movie star proud. The question is: what are they doing that most guys aren’t?

Women and Porn-star Sex

Most women are willing to experiment with some elements of porn-star sex, they just don’t like the other elements. Unsurprisingly, women find a total lack of intimacy a huge turn-off: after all it could be anyone underneath your favorite star and he’d have sex exactly the same way! There is a key message for men everywhere: don’t ever think that your hips moving like a jackrabbit can ever replace basic intimacy!

Often in these movies, the guys act in a very dominant way. While this may seem like a bad thing to try in your sex life, in fact this is often something that guys forget: just make sure not to confuse being manly with being mean! It is okay to act dominant and in-control during sex, for many women it is a key part of the sex fantasy.

In porn everything is done for the man’s benefit, which is one of many reasons why women don’t usually like watching it. If you want to try these kind of acts in real life, they need to be about both of your pleasures. The cowgirl, for example, is mostly used to get some ‘good’ shots in movies, whereas in real life it is an excellent way to give her a G-spot orgasm. However not all sex acts that take place in porn are about her pleasure, so the question is how do things that seem entirely about the guy’s pleasure become something that she will want to do.

For Whose Pleasure?

That is where making sure that you have great sex is really important. Sex should always be able getting to the goal where you get pleasure from touching her and she gets pleasure from touching you. A good example of this is anal sex. A lot of guys just ‘stick it in’ hurting her (And possibly themselves!) in the act, however if done correctly so that you make sure that it is pleasurable to her throughout, anal sex should stimulate the erogenous zones in a different way to ‘regular sex’.

While there are better ways to learn than watching these kinds of movies, there are lessons to be learned. You should never consider going out of your way to repeat the sexual acrobatics of your favorite star, but there is nothing wrong with using some techniques in the right way.

5 Movies Worth Watching to Understand Sexual Encounters

Today we are going to list the movies that are a must watch to understand underlying sexual tension.

There are scenes in these movies which have become immortal.

The crux here is to under stand the sexual language being used and the way the two parties involved actually complement each other. These are well choreographed scenes.

Here we go:

1. Movie: Basic Instinct

Michael Douglas and Sharon Stone. Its one scene where you can see the aggression portrayed by both the parties. It’s more of a sexual tension arising out of Mystery. Each one does not know what’s going to happen next.

The body language and the look in their eyes conveys a lot of passion and erotic moves adding to it makes it a good learning ground for understanding sex as a emotion redresser.

2. Movie:Unfaithful

This is one scene which stands out as a curiosity makes a Woman enter into a sexual relationship with a complete stranger. The first scene when the female protagonist comes back in the train with a bruised knee and thinking about her encounter with a complete stranger and the way she loves it. He teases her and then even lets her beat him before entering her.

3. Movie: Poison Ivy

Drew Berry Moore uses her bodily grace to seduce an old man for engaging in a sexual foreplay and intercourse.

This is a strange tension of sorts wherein the relation is much a taboo and there is under tone of danger wherein some one from the Old Man’s family could have found it out.

4. Movie: Desperados

Salma Hayek and Antonio Banderas

The sizzling scene in bed with candles lit all around makes a treat to watch. There is an injured individual on medication and there is this Lady who takes care of him. This is a fantastic scene showing the passionate love making between two individuals hiding from captive.

5. Movie: Pretty Woman

Here is a Rich Man who hires a Prostitute for sex and then the way they are making love and getting emotionally involved, actually start loving each other is one good way of seeing the various phases in which their sexual overtones get portrayed.

These are some of the movies to watch the body language and the moves which can also help Couples to not just enjoy movies for content but also check the sexual performances.